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		  I read
		  your answer to my question. Thank you. I am the 
          Mormon. Maybe you have become overwhelmed with the sorrows of sinfulness but 
          nothing human is all good or all bad I have found. Would Jesus the shepherd 
          see the lost sheep as an unworthy sheep for wandering off? If Jesus thought 
          so he might scold the sheep without loving him and caring for his wounds. Maybe 
          then Jesus would give up and leave the sheep there to die lost in his pain. 
          Maybe the sheep needs many lessons of love from Jesus so he will not keep wandering 
          off away from the shepherd. The real love you write about is in loving service to
		  sinners with a gentle heart. Then the lost sheep would be taken back to the
		  flock in the arms of the joyful shepherd before he dies of his wounds. That
		  is what draws me to the Catholic religion.
		   
		   
		   
  ou’re welcome. And I fully
		  agree with what you say about the sheep and their need for lessons of
		  love. 
		  In reading between the lines,
		  though, I can tell that you yourself have suffered considerable abuse as
		  a child, but that you have not yet healed from
		  it. To help you here, let’s consider the function of a
		  shepherd.
		   
		  A shepherd loves his sheep, yes,
		  but he does not just say to them, “Anything goes. Do what you want.”
		  No. The shepherd—at least, a good shepherd—has to establish boundaries
		  and set rules for the flock’s movements. If he doesn’t, the sheep
		  will be scattered everywhere and all the sheep will be lost
		  sheep.
		   
		  In a similar way, the Church
		  has its laws and regulations and traditions.
		  These aren’t just dry, empty rules that stifle love. The Church
		  doesn’t speak about sin to scold you; it speaks
		  about sin to save you from your own self-destruction.
		  Church laws are the protection necessary for love to grow and flourish. You
		  already know this deep in your heart. You know that when your parents
		  failed as parents and did what they wanted
		  to your emotions and to your body, your soul was crushed. You became a lost
		  sheep.
		   
		  Now, your experience as a child
		  is not uncommon today, and, as more and more lost sheep grow up and
		  raise their own lost sheep, everything is getting worse, and lost sheep are
		  becoming the norm.
		   
		  Nevertheless, good shepherds
		  are trying to find and save the lost sheep.
		   
		  The problems start, however,
		  when the lost sheep, all because of their anger
		  at their parents’ hypocrisy, decide to
		  talk back to the shepherds. Some of them say,
		  “We don’t believe in wolves, so we’re happy where we are.
		  We like it here, on our own, with no one to tell us what to do.” Then
		  there are those who say, “We’re sick of being chased by the dogs.
		  Let us take care of ourselves; we can live by our own reason. We have science
		  and technology to protect us. We don’t need dogs barking at us all the
		  time.” These are the ones in danger of being lost forever, devoured
		  by the wolves of hell.
		   
		  So what can be done for them?
		  All we can do is live the truth through
		  sacrifice, obedience, and prayer as an example
		  to them, and hope some of them will listen. And we must always
		  pray for all the lost souls in danger of
		  hell who have no one to pray for them. 
		   
		  If you decide to convert, then
		  you really can start fresh and have your wounds cleansed. Because the Catholic
		  Church does not recognize Mormon baptism as a Christian baptism, however,
		  you will be baptized into a new life. Then it
		  will be up to you whether you stay clean and pure in the arms of the joyful
		  shepherd or whether you wander off from the flock to find your happiness
		  in a world that wants only unconditional acceptance
		  of anything.
		   
		   
		   
		   
		   
		   
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