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Why
do we say, Kýrie, eléison—“Lord, have
mercy”? Doesn’t this mean that God will overlook our
sins?
 ome people believe that an acceptance
of Jesus as their Savior guarantees their entrance into the Kingdom of Heaven.
Because of this, they also believe that all of their
sins, while an offense to God, have already been
forgiven in Jesus while He was on the Cross. Consequently, they conceptualize
all this as a matter of God “overlooking” their sins.
Salvation is
a Life-long Battle
Now, the truth is, God does not
“overlook” our sins as a matter of course.
Through His death on the Cross,
Christ paid for our redemption.
Redemption (sometimes called justification) is God’s gift
to us. It’s a gift, unmerited on our part, that pays the mystical penalty
for our Original Sin. This penalty, which no person
by his or her own efforts can ever pay, and which even obedience to the sacred
Jewish Law cannot erase, was paid through the sacrifice of Christ. As Saint
Paul said, “Christ died for our sins in accordance with the
scriptures” (1 Corinthians 15:3).
Consequently, all souls have
been redeemed by the mystical sacrifice of Christ, but every soul individually
needs to accept that redemption by repenting
its sins and living a holy lifestyle; this
pursuit of a holy life can lead to the soul’s
salvation.
The salvation of any soul requires
a profound, life-long personal battle against
evil. That’s why Saint Paul tells us to “work
out your salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians
2:12b).
Now, when many of us say,
“Lord, have mercy,” we are not really speaking from a place of
profound heartfelt contrition, and we aren’t trembling at the battle
before us; instead, we are thinking, “Lord, go easy on me.” The
unspoken implication of this thought is that salvation shouldn’t be
a lot of hard work. Thus we show ourselves to be too lazy, too arrogant,
and too self-indulgent—too lukewarm—to
be willing to surrender ourselves completely to divine love.
A Hollow Shell
Covering Inner Fear
Psychologically, most of us are
lazy and arrogant because, as a result of growing up in
dysfunctional families that manipulate us
into obedience to arbitrary authority through game-playing and emotional
dishonesty, some dark part of us believes we
are worthless and don’t deserve the purity
of genuine love. That
proud, hard heart, however, is just a hollow shell
covering up our inner fear.
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What is it everyone
fears? We’re all afraid that if we really change our lives and witness
the truth, our families will reject us. We’re afraid that our husbands
or wives will divorce us and we will lose a nice, comfortable life. We’re
afraid that our co-workers and friends will criticize us. We’re afraid
that our social prestige will suffer. We’re afraid that our careers
will be threatened. In short, we’re afraid of what we might
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Mercy: Its Secular
and Theological Meaning
Now, in its psychological sense,
mercy means to withhold some—or all—of the punishment demanded
by justice, if the guilty person shows deep sorrow for his or her
behavior.
In its additional theological
implications, mercy can also involve showing kindness to others in
the hope that they might overcome their fear and, feeling sorrow for their
sins, turn to God’s mercy. This follows from
the compassionate example of Christ Himself who sat with sinners, not to
wink at their sins, but to call them to
repentance.
Therefore, with this understanding
of theology, you will see that God is always offering His mercy, despite
our arrogance. All we have to do is accept His mercy, despite our
fears.
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 I do not want to punish
aching mankind, but I desire to heal it, pressing it to My Merciful Heart.
I use punishment when they themselves force me to do so; my hand is reluctant
to take hold of the sword of Justice. Before the Day of Justice I am sending
the Day of Mercy. . . .
I cannot punish
even the greatest sinner if he makes an appeal to My compassion, but on the
contrary, I justify him in My unfathomable and inscrutable
mercy. . . .
Tell sinners
that no one shall escape My hand; if they run away from My Merciful Heart,
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—told to Saint
Faustina by Jesus,
Diary (1588, 1146, 1728) |
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Refusing
Mercy
The problem, then, is that in
our proud, hardened hearts we refuse to accept
the mercy so graciously offered to us. In trying to defend our self-esteem
from the emotional wounds of family dysfunction,
we try to convince ourselves that we are self-sufficient, and we end up believing
that begging for mercy is just another game—like all family games—that
will lead to more humiliation.
Moreover, like
Jonah, we often begrudge God’s gift of mercy
to others.
To make
heretical claims, as many do today—saying
that hell does not exist, and that
sin is an outdated concept irrelevant to today’s
world, and that everyone will go to heaven “because God loves
us”—only serves as a psychological
defense against the terror of human
brokenness. Like all heresies, such
claims injure others because they deny to others the truth that they need
in order to repent their sins and turn to
divine mercy.
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To trust in
The Divine Mercy is to
believe in the reality of sin and to tremble before
the Divine Justice that punishes all unrepentant sin.
Moreover, to
pray for mercy on yourself—and on others—means that you are making
your contribution to facilitate a general sense of repentance that this world
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Contrition and
Adoration
Therefore, to say, “Lord,
have mercy” in full spiritual honesty means that you are begging God
not to be easy on you but to give you the life experiences that will break
you and humble you—not humiliate you—and
crack open your hardened heart. Then, in that crack of
contrition, maybe true
love will begin to take root and grow, and spread and transform the hardness
into life.
Furthermore, divine mercy does
not stop there, with pure contrition—that is, when a soul sees and realizes
the gravity of its sins. Even humble, repentant souls striving for holiness
need to adore Christ’s mercy.
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I desire that
these souls distinguish themselves by boundless trust in My mercy. I myself
will attend to the sanctification of such souls. I will provide them with
everything they need to attain sanctity. The graces of My mercy are drawn
by means of one vessel only, and that is—trust. The more a soul trusts,
the more it will receive. Souls that trust boundlessly are a great comfort
to Me, because I pour all the treasures of My graces into them. I rejoice
that they ask for much, because it is My desire to give much, very much.
On the other hand, I am sad when souls ask for little, when they narrow their
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—told to Saint
Faustina by Jesus,
Diary (1578) |
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True Christian life, therefore,
is not just a matter of the initial
repentance; it requires a constant
struggle to provide a good return on the investment
of graces that God makes in us (Matthew 25:14-30). We can do this only by
detaching ourselves from the
illusions of this world
and trusting completely in God—adoring God’s mercy for our own
good, and performing works of mercy for the good of others.
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Blessed are the
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A Genuine Plea
for Mercy
O LORD, I am
weak and broken, surrounded on all sides by corruption and perversion.
LORD have mercy on me: protect me from my enemies who would
devour me, and guide me in the Way of Perfection.
What the
Catechism of the Catholic Church says:
2447 The
works of mercy are charitable actions by which we come to the aid
of our neighbor in his spiritual and bodily necessities. Instructing, advising,
consoling, comforting are spiritual works of mercy, as are forgiving and
bearing wrongs patiently. The corporal works of mercy consist especially
in feeding the hungry, sheltering the homeless, clothing the naked, visiting
the sick and imprisoned, and burying the dead. Among all these, giving alms
to the poor is one of the chief witnesses to fraternal charity: it is also
a work of justice pleasing to God.
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