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I have been down the rough road of drug addiction, to the point of trashing my credit, my memory, even what would seem like a bad thing - my pride. Sloth had filled my life and I can sum up the past 4 years with just a few words on a piece of paper I call my resume. Most of them are what you would call lower level jobs such as clerk or my current one as helper. The worst part is I have been going to the doctor for help such as anti-psychotics and anti-depressants only to find out that most of my problems were due to physical pain in my inner ear. When I typed "catholic bipolar" in a Google search, your chastity site was one of the first things to pop up. You talked about the vanity of new age anti-depressants which I associate now with a complex set of words to make people seem like they know how to help you.
     I have yet to try [anything else] due to my unconscious desire to agree with my therapist and the habit of saying "I’m doing fine" to any question of “How are you doing?”.
     I have found that reading aloud in AA groups really helps my verbal skills, but I still lack the strength it takes to tell people how to deal with me so that I may be productive in work or social settings.
     My question is this: What is money? I feel as if it is nothing more than paper or 1s and 0s on a computer screen.

Outline of the Answer
• Introduction
• Signifiers and Symbols
• The Psychological Problem with Money
• The Failure of a Father
• Real Worth

 
Ahat is money? At first glance, it might seem that this question should be referred to an economics professor. But the context of your question points to the unconscious basis of your symptoms, and so as a signifier your question is worth its weight in gold. I will clarify the meaning of this in the rest of my answer.

 
Signifiers

Speaking philosophically, money is a signifier that points to things that have actual value. Things that have actual value can be practical things that directly sustain the body (such as food, water, and clothing), practical things that help to sustain daily life, and more abstract things (such as art, jewelry, etc., as well as services) that affect the quality of life.

In primitive societies, things of value (i.e., commodities) are traded for other things of value; this process of trading is called barter, and in such a system there is no need for money.

In more sophisticated economic systems, certain commodities such as gold and silver can also be signifiers of value, such as when gold and silver are minted as coins. As coins, the gold and silver relinquish their function as commodities (that is, raw materials for metal work) and take on the function pointing to the value of other things.

As a further economic step, paper money replaces coinage, and base metals, such as copper, replace precious metals, such as gold and silver, in coinage. Thus the paper money, along with base-metal coins, become signifiers of gold and silver. That is, even though the paper currency and the base metal coins have almost no intrinsic value, they signify value because they point to the value of other things.

In the current technological age, electronic transactions frequently replace paper money and coins. In this case, the 1s and 0s to which you refer are signifiers with no tangible physical properties.

 
The Psychological Problem with Money

Thus, the truth is that money as a signifier has no real value; its value is in its function of pointing to other things—and it’s at this point that the psychological problems with money develop.

Signifiers are neither good nor bad. For example, money in itself is not bad, but the love of money, as Saint Paul said, is a root of evil (1 Timothy 6:10). Words, too, are signifiers, and words can be used to bless or to curse, to edify life or to defile it. Thus any signifier can be used for a good or for a perverted purpose.

The word pervert comes from the Latin word to turn; thus a perversion turns you away from something; in short, a perversion misses the point.

The psychological reason for perversion is found in the symbolic realm. When all things are valued as having been created by God to serve love, then there is no perversion because the true point of the thing is being fulfilled; but when, as Saint Paul describes in chapter 6 of his first letter to Timothy, things lose their symbolic reference to God and take on a reference to self-gratification, everything collapses into corruption and false beliefs—and love is defiled.

Thus, without pointing to proper symbolic value, money and words only serve psychological and spiritual perversion. For example, as you said, in your disordered state of life your life has become reduced to just a few words on a piece of paper.

 
The Failure of a Father

Now, in your case, the reason for this perversion can be found in the failure of your father. Even though you did not mention your father in your question, you did mention several signs of unconscious anger at a “missing” father: addictions, a lack of respect for money, a lack of value for your own talents, and a lack of respect for the words to protect your dignity.

Your father has failed you as a father in his failure to teach you the proper symbolic value of life; whatever he points to, he misses the point about your needs and about serving God. Moreover, in your anger at your father you have been trapped in the unconscious desire to send yourself to hell in order to hurt him for hurting you. Your healing will begin when you recognize this unconscious anger and the reason for it, and when you learn to value all things for their service to God.

 
Real Worth

And now we come to a final question: How much is something worth? Well, it’s worth what you will pay to acquire it for yourself. In your case, you asked me a question about money, but it led us into the reason (unconscious anger at your father) for your psychological problems. Thus, in pointing you to the real problem, your question has shown its real value, for, if you now seek to acquire healing, your question is worth its weight in gold.

 

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